I just sit here a wondering
if anyone ever get just what is they hanker after, or if compromise is the only
way you can get from here to there? I reckon two people can only travel down
the same trail together as long as the trail is going in the direction that
both of ‘em want to travel in. But then, by Ned, you come to a fork in the
trail, ain’t no problem as long as you both want to take the left fork, or you
both want to take the righ’un. But if’n one want the right and the other wants
the left, well then somebody has to surrender their druthers. If they both
compromise then they have to set up camp and plant roots right where the trail
forked. If one or the other get to pick the fork in is not because of
compromise that they continue down the trail, but the surrender of one’s desire
to the others.
I opine that it is importance
that sets the stage for surrender or compromise. If’n it is important enough
for one to ride down one of them forks, then regardless of how important it is
for the other to ride down the other fork a parting of the ways is in the
cards. A partnership can only last as long as the partnership is more important
than the trail for at least one of the partners. If this is not so than not
only is a parting of the ways in the cards, and that hand will be dealt at one
fork or another, sooner or later.
It the old westerns there was
always a sidekick, the man who always let his partner pick the way and the
job. He was always indispensably for
things to work out right. Don Quixote's
Sancho had his Panza, Sherlock Holmes' Doctor Watson, The Lone Ranger's Tonto,
and Batman's Robin. Boyfriend
girlfriends, husbands and wives are partners, and while heather has to be
subordinate to the other one has to be the head else the body will dissolved in
the corrosion of conflict resolution.
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